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How To Chat Online
How to Chat
by Colleen Butler
In what resembles a scene
from a sci-fi movie, people are chatting and dating in virtual rooms across
the world. Chat rooms are everywhere and offer something for everyone.
Chat - Getting Started
Before embarking on your
chat adventure, you should familiarize yourself with the concept of chat.
Chat is quite different from email: it takes place in real-time. Once you
type a message, everyone in the chat session views your words almost instantly.
Chatting in real-time enhances the chat experience by creating a conversational
atmosphere.
You must have Internet access
to chat. Online service providers offer a variety of services such as newsgroups,
bulletin boards, and chats. Just click on the chat icon to get started.
When choosing your username or anonymous handle, use anonymity to your
benefit and select a name that reflects your personality.
For safety purposes, never
reveal your real name, location, or telephone number.
There are two types of chat:
group and private. Group chats are virtual rooms filled with people hosting
various discussions at the same time. Private chats are virtual rooms created
by users who wish to host their chats in a more intimate setting. Both
are public forums.
To create a comfortable environment
and enhance your chatting experience, familiarize yourself with chat guidelines,
etiquette, or tips.
Before you begin to chat,
take a moment to view the conversations and get a feel for the atmosphere
in the room. Introduce yourself and greet everyone in the room. A simple
"Hello Everyone" is a great way to start.
Improving Chat Skills
Chat environments offer lively
and entertaining exchanges for everyone who participates. Like anything
else, chatting requires a little time and practice to fully enjoy the experience.
Locate the chat schedule and discover what type of chatting activities
are available. Most chat schedules are filled with celebrity hosts and
offer a variety of topics. Moderated chat: Celebrity chats are an exciting
way to learn the latest information or hobnob with the stars. Because they
tend to draw a crowd, a moderated forum is used. Simply submit your question
and a moderator will forward your question to the host.
If your question is accepted,
the host will reply. Always keep on topic when attending a celebrity chat.
Be aware of the impression you make in a chat room. Sarcasm and well-intentioned
criticisms lose their place in the chat environment.
Don't gossip. It seldom casts
a flattering light upon you. Use chat rooms and tools to your advantage.
"Ignore" anyone who is disruptive.
Expression is an important
part of chat. Familiarize yourself with emoticons and other chat expressions
to look and feel like a pro.
Chit-chat
Once you become comfortable
with chatting, you will encounter new people and create friendships. Together,
you will forge a community of individuals based on shared interests and
life experience. To enhance your community experience I recommend the following:
Select a certain day, time,
and chat room to meet your friends each week.
Once you establish a group
forum, vary the location of your meetings to allow others to participate.
Host your own chat events.
Create a friendly list serve
or newsletter to remind your community members of any new information.
Realize that trust and commitment are key components to any community and
that they both take time to develop.
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